What Did You Learn From Your Dad?

 

I was thinking about fathers today — what they give us, what we learn from them and how those lessons stay with us long after they're gone. Some of us were fortunate to have fathers who showed up consistently and taught us through words and actions. Others learned from father figures, mentors or the absence of them. Whether our experiences were filled with warmth or marked by complicated emotions, many of us carry something forward from these relationships that shaped us. What strikes me most about fatherhood isn't its perfection but its impact. The values we choose to embrace, the traditions we carry forward and, sometimes, the cycles we consciously break are parts of this inheritance. We can honor what was meaningful while creating our own definitions of what it means to care for others. Today, whether we're celebrating, remembering, reconciling or simply acknowledging the complex emotions this day brings, we can take a moment to recognize the lessons that strengthen us, the memories that guide us and the love — whether abundantly given or achingly absent — that shape our understanding of care and commitment. What will you choose to carry forward? What will you leave behind? These choices make our journeys uniquely ours, even as they connect us to those who came before. Happy Father's Day!

Can a Mother's Instinct Change the World?

 

The influence of mothers shapes us in subtle and profound ways. Although every mother doesn’t achieve heroic recognition, their daily choices, their persistent faith in our potential and their quiet wisdom help build the foundation of who we become. Through their example and encouragement, we often find strength we didn't know we had. During the 1950s, when Eustacia Cutler took her 4-year-old daughter Temple to the doctor, she heard words no mother wants to hear. The doctors diagnosed Temple with autism and then recommended institutionalization — the standard medical advice of that era. They said Temple would never speak, never connect, never thrive. But Eustacia saw something different in her daughter's eyes. Where others saw only limitations, she noticed how Temple could think in pictures, how she related to animals in unique ways and how she processed the world differently — not wrongly. Against the prevailing wisdom of the time, Eustacia made a bold decision. Instead of institutionalizing Temple, she created an enriched environment at home. She hired a speech therapist, encouraged Temple's natural interests and, most importantly, presumed competence when others assumed limitation. Her insight proved transformative. Temple Grandin went on to earn a Ph.D., revolutionize animal science, design more-humane livestock-handling equipment used worldwide and become one of the world's most-influential voices in understanding autism. Today, Dr. Temple Grandin often credits her success to her mother's early insight. "My mother never gave up on me,” she said. “She recognized that different didn't mean less." Sometimes a mother's wisdom isn't just about raising a child; it's about changing the world's perspective, one person at a time. Happy Mother's Day!

The Art of Looking

 

In a small coastal town, an elderly woman spent decades running the local antique shop. Every April, she would close her store for two weeks - not for vacation, but for what she called "the renewal." Visitors often wondered why she dedicated so much time to spring cleaning when her shop already sparkled. Her response was always the same: "I'm not just cleaning, I'm rediscovering." Each year, as she moved each piece in her shop, she would find something extraordinary - a hidden hallmark on a silver teapot, a forgotten note tucked in a vintage book, or simply a new way to display an overlooked item. These discoveries often led to the most remarkable sales of the year. But her greatest insight came when a young apprentice asked why she didn't hire others to help speed up the process. She smiled and explained, "Some treasures can only be found by slowing down. Each piece needs to be held, considered, and appreciated anew. Sometimes the most valuable discoveries aren't the items themselves, but the fresh perspectives we gain when we take time to truly see them again." Like those antiques, our lives often hold unexpected treasures - insights, opportunities, and possibilities that only reveal themselves when we pause to look at things with fresh eyes.

This is Perfect Timing

 

What Can Cherry Blossoms Teach Us About Perfect Timing And Preparation? In a small mountain village in Japan, an elderly gardener spent 50 years tending to a single cherry tree. Visitors often questioned his dedication to this one tree, especially because the surrounding hillsides burst with thousands of blossoms each spring. Every year, he studied his tree and pruned it with careful precision. While other trees bloomed in spectacular shows of pink, his tree remained modest but grew slowly and steadily. Some villagers whispered that he had wasted his life on an unremarkable tree. Then one spring, when the other cherry trees began to fade and a late frost killed the flowers, his tree burst into bloom, making it the only cherry tree still blooming during the village's annual festival. The gardener's patient cultivation had created a unique variety of tree that bloomed later than others, which ensured the festival would always have cherry blossoms. His decades of careful attention resulted in something extraordinary because he understood that some things require their own perfect timing. Sometimes the most valuable growth happens in its own time, invisible to others until the moment is right.

Is It Time For A Check-Up?

 

Health: Our Most Precious Investment   February is often celebrated as a time for romantic love, but love takes many forms worth honoring. While romance captures attention, the lasting power of committed love, compassionate love and, perhaps most importantly, self-love truly shapes our lives. These deeper forms of love reveal themselves through the care and commitment we show to others — and ourselves — every day. Prioritizing our health is one of the most profound ways we express self-love. Too often, we place everyone else's needs above our own well-being. But one of the greatest acts of love — for ourselves and for those who care about us — is making time for preventive healthcare. Many of us know at least one person who discovers that a treatable form of cancer or another health condition could have been caught earlier through routine screening. We often hear, "I just never made the time to get checked out." Healthcare professionals remind us that serious health conditions often begin silently: A quick blood pressure check might prevent a stroke, a routine mammogram might detect cancer at its most treatable stage, or a basic cholesterol screening might lead to lifestyle changes that add years to our lives. Timing matters with these screenings. At 40, our bodies begin to send signals to which we should listen. By 45, consider having screenings, such as those for colorectal and prostate health. And at 50, it’s time to check in on bone density and lung health. Remarkably, these potential life-saving measures require minimal time — 10 minutes for a blood pressure check, 30 minutes for a mammogram and an hour for an annual physical. These small investments can reshape our future. Remember that our health is the foundation for all of our plans and dreams. Every moment spent on preventive care is a gift — to ourselves and to everyone counting on us to be around for several more years. With care, Zen Ziejewski

Let's Get Organized!

As we settle into 2025, I wanted to share a helpful resource I've put together: "Let's Get Organized - 10 Simple Projects for a More Efficient Home."

This easy-to-follow guide includes practical projects like:

• Creating an efficient family command center
• Setting up smart donation systems
• Organizing key spaces like entryways and pantries
• Establishing relaxation zones
• Planning home maintenance schedules

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And remember, I'm here as your local resource! If you need advice on home maintenance, insights into our local market, or recommendations for trusted services, don't hesitate to reach out.

Wishing you a wonderfully organized year ahead!

Stay on Top of Home Maintenance with this Essential Checklist

 

To help you stay organized and on top of your home maintenance tasks, I created a Home Maintenance Checklist. This comprehensive checklist breaks down your home maintenance responsibilities into different categories, making it easier than ever to keep your property in great shape throughout the year.

Maintaining your home can sometimes be overwhelming, but you're not alone in this journey. As your trusted real estate consultant, I have strong connections within our community, including a network of reliable service providers. If you ever need referrals or recommendations for any of the tasks on the checklist, please don't hesitate to reach out to me. I am more than happy to assist you in finding the right professionals for the job.

 

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I strongly encourage you to print it out or save it digitally to help you stay organized throughout the year.

Remember, a well-maintained home not only enhances your quality of life, but it also contributes to the long-term value of your investment. If you have any questions about the checklist or need further guidance on home maintenance, please reach out to me!

Wishing you a prosperous and well-maintained home in 2025!

Warm regards,

Zen Ziejewski